Having styled a lot of individuals in the last seven years, I will say this: You can change your clothes, you can get things tailored, you can grow hair out or cut it and change it colors, you can lose and gain weight and swap it for muscle and tone, you can even get an elocution coach for speech therapy and change the way you speak — but you can’t fix stupid.

Emotional intelligence matters.

And the holy trifecta triangle of awesome is certainly attainable, but they are rare individuals who possess a balance of all three qualities.

icodeforlove:

this is so true